Friday, February 3
Guys... Arggh..
I am getting sick of guys' nonsense.... I hate it when they tried to do damage control when the r/s is over... hate it when they tried to say lovey dovey things only after they hurt the girl... It's damn fake... N dun think we dunno about ur lies... Dun tell us u love us. And tell others that the feelings are different now and that u may like someone else in the future and by then its not fair to us. It's v obvious that u dun love us le la.. mayb jus still got abit of like and maybe abit of "habit to be with us". And that is about all... Even if u are sad, its only becoz u guys kinda feel guilty to hurt us... not becoz that the r/s ended up this way...
We neither need them to "shi she" their kindness to us nor pity us... Yes.. We may cry... But we are stronger than we seemed... Crying is jus our way of releasing our stress and maybe venting our emotions at times... and Crying is NOT a sign of weakness...
Btw.. Dun claim that u tried to salvage the r/s when in actual fact.. u din do anything at all... or worse...tried to get away from the other person... U may defend urself by saying cooling off is a gd way too... Rubbish...! hello... Dun u noe that communication is the way to solve problems. I cant deny the fact that not talking to each other jus after the argument might be beneficial... Coz it might lead to more arguments and unhappiness. but cool off is only suppose to be for short period of time... The so called "cooling off" from u all would most probably mean "break up 1st,n if there is anything else, we will see how." Then if u really want it that way.. u tell us... Whatever la...! N pls dun keep contacting us when we have no future together and stop lying to us about ur r/s with ur present gfs... We got many to love and care for us and we dun need to be ur spare tyres..! Dumb..
ok.. i finish my complaints.. haha.. I feel great...
Lionel jus came over to my hse to "bai nian". haha.. Must be tough talking to my parents huh... =) But u did a gd job... I think they like u too... Heez...
On lizhen's bday... many things happened... haa.. we went to century sq's billy bombers. Quixi got choke by chicken bones. But the doc couldn't find anything which is oso a gd thing.. Luckily she is ok now. That nite, we spend many hrs at Mac teasing qin, mel and sian... and showings pics to everyone. It was super funny.. N the Mac pple tried to take our pics... i dunno for wat.. probably coz we using the wireless and ya.. we might appear in their newsletter...When we were about to leave... some guy came up to me n said in chinese: My fren wants to noe u. I jus smiled and replied "No"..N the person actually thank me... hmmm... funny n weird at the same time.
