Wednesday, February 22
Happening lives
I am fine and all... It's the people around me... Yes.. their lives are very happening... but it's somehow bothering them in some ways...
I had a friend who later become a jerk... Lying through his teeth and perhaps having a third party... But it's his pretence of being the innocent party that makes me feel very disgusted... I guess that its the traits of all guys to try to act like Mr Nice guy after the breakup... But u guys are so dumb... We knew exactly what u did and seen through all ur superb acting skills and lies...For that friend, I dunno how to face him again(at least in the near future). Btw... girls are not dumb... we just act dumb to accommodate u guys coz ur egos are huge...
The period of "ai mei" is like the sweetest of all... Having someone to shower u with all the extra care and concern and basking in all that attention is really a great feeling.. . The idea having a chauffeur, late nite suppers, phone calls, presents and cakes are really sweet... (oh! Btw, i dun mean attention from someone whom disgust u.) It's something that u dun get it as much when u r in a r/s... Pple always say "lao fu lao qi le".. dun need do such things... Its utter nonsense... everyone needs to feel loved from time to time... and it's of absolute importance to keep that kind of feelings... all we need is a small gesture and it can mean alot...
On the other hand, when u are already in a r/s, "ai mei" with someone else is not very nice... Yes.. u do get the attention but u also got all sorts of worries... I jus dun think that what that third party is doing is very right... U knew that she had a bf.. dun u think u shud be doing less of those sweet stuffs... It will make us wonder about ur ulterior motives... and u wun like someone doing that to ur gf rite?
And guys dun ever try to ctrl ur gf/wife. It is very irritating and we do have a mind of our own... We dun like MCPs... Obviously! Why would we ever like a pig as our partner...? We want our guy to be sensitive and sweet... and not ordering us around.. and demanding that we do or dun do certain things... Its just not right... If u like it so much to be in ctrl, pls go be with creatures programmed to do only things u want it to... I really not stopping u guys... it's really ur choice... i wun discriminate u...
